During all the discussion on M/M and reading through reasons people have for liking M/M I find that some of those reasons I do understand. Emotional restraint can be incredibly attractive ( Read more... )

In the last three months, I have seen a marked increase in "how do I get my partner to dom me"-posts on LJ, fetish forums I read, fetish mailing lists, and the SZ. Where does that suddenly come from? I've been finding itching to reply, "not at all, prince/ss, and why don't you discuss with your partner instead of us?!" I really wonder how these ( Read more... )

I know that people can't argue with sexual preferences, but the fact that so many female bisexual subs I meet online and offline have a very pronounced preference for male doms as opposed to dommes really bugs me.

I know that people can't help their preferences, but I doubt that that many people can have a completely individual interest for men as ( Read more... )

I have power. Only ever the power you give me, even though I take it. I am living with the consciousness that I am able to deal with that power, too, that I want to be the one in control, need to be the one in control. Or not ( Read more... )

It is spring.

Outside, the birds have told each other, themselves and me so for the last month, even though there have been bouts of frost now and then.
Don't you know it is spring?

They say, in their tcheeping and their singing and their building nests. Plants suddenly start blooming, being noticeable to people who do not usually watch plants.

Look ( Read more... )

Not even the remnants of the good old days, the golden MOO and MUD days, are safe any longer! Even the LambdaMOO... I can remember the place being fairly harmless and PG-13.

I walked in and ten minutes later I have been deeply immersed in a conversation about canings. Goodness... They are everywhere! Tell someone you've cained someone, and they ( Read more... )